We watched the opening of the last World Cup, hosted by Qatar, on tv screens set up outside a pavement cafe in the southern Jordanian port city of Aqaba.

A mostly local Jordanian crowd with a smattering of overseas tourists, both Western and Arab, sat together watching the pomp and ceremony and the opening Qatar vs Ecuador game in good spirits, sipping traditional Jordanian coffees and teas, munching on baklava and dates, quite a few puffing away on nargilla hubble bubbles.

The chaos and uncertainty of the pandemic was starting to lift, there was a sense of hope and new beginnings.

Today, the last day of this year's World Cup, Aqaba was targeted by a volley of Iranian missiles, intercepted by US anti-missile defense systems and Israeli Iron Dome systems across the border in Eilat.

War clouds seem to be gathering again over the region, including the Gulf states and previous World Cup host Qatar, which had thought their vast wealth and playing both sides would grant them immunity from any potential Iran war or regional instability.

It was a sweltering day to be working in a greenhouse but it was such a satisfying day's work despite the non-stop shvitz.

My companions were two incredible volunteers who despite physical/health constraints are two of the most enthusiastic and dedicated farm volunteers I know, people with a deep love of Am Yisrael and a smile and friendly word for everyone.

There's something meditative about a straightforward farm job, like trimming leaves from a tomato plant, you have to think, yes, but you get into a rhythm of the familiar and you can immediately see results as the "jungle" of stray leaves and shoots evens out into a colourful neat tapestry of bright cherry tomatoes hanging on the trimmed vines.

Today's work was further enhanced by two podcasts, though admittedly I did not understand a word of the first one because it was entirely in Thai. The presenter had a very pleasant, relaxing voice though. I enjoyed just listening to the music of the language while I clipped and pruned, at once focusing on NOT CUTTING THE STRINGS OR TOMATOES, while being soothed by a monologue in a language with which I have almost no familiarity. The Thai worker listening along seemed very intent on his work and the speaker, when I walked past he was smiling a warm contented smile as he listened and clipped the vines.

The second podcast was playing from the phone of a high school student from the village, a serious young man who works at the farm after school and through the summer.

He was on a channel aimed at helping young people prepare for national service and he was listening to an interview with an educator at a yeshiva pre-army programme talking about his life story and experiences.

It was absolutely fascinating, the man being interviewed (who's name I didn't catch) was deeply thoughtful, someone with great conviction and deeply held beliefs, but also someone who didn't gloss over experiences he found challenging or painful, but instead talked about how he grew from them, how they fashioned his world view and most importantly to him, how they shaped the way he performs his job as an educator who teaches classes in Gemara, Krav Maga and wilderness survivalism.

He said a great many things and if my hands hadn't been busy trimming cherry tomato vines I would have taken notes, but one of the things that stuck with me in particular was his comment that what marks Krav Maga as an Israeli martial art is how it draws from a Sabra ethos of using whatever you have to hand to protect yourself, a shoe, sand, and likewise survival skills are predicated on knowing how to make full use of your environment, being able to create what you need from what there is, not from what you wish you had.

He said spiritual, mental and soul survival should be thought of in the same way. What resources do you have to hand? What can you use to build up your mental and spiritual strength when you need to? Everything you have experienced, everyone you've ever met, all your knowledge, all the history of those who came before you, so many tools that people often fail to see or lack the creativity to explore or think about, even when maybe they are right in front of them.

I asked the youngster what he hopes to do during his army service. He answered with a slight air of bewilderment because this is the most obvious thing in the world: he wants to be a combat soldier when he finishes secondary school so that he can protect his home and community located near the Gaza border.

I'm frankly way too sleep deprived from air raid sirens at all hours of the day and night because Iran is firing ballistic missiles at densely populated civilian areas in several US allied Middle Eastern countries but after seeing post after post like this I feel like I have to say something as someone in the Middle East looking at the discourse in Europe and North America from afar. Those of us in countries like Bahrain, Israel, Lebanon, Jordan, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Oman look at how the enlightened countries of the West are happy to enable the Iranian regime to spread death and destruction across the Middle East, caring only about whether they will have to pay more for oil. Who cares how many ballistic missiles armed with cluster munitions Iran lobs at densely populated civilian areas and international airports (leaving thousands stranded), as long as the price of gasoline doesn't go up. It kind of reminds me of bumper stickers from the 1973/4 oil shocks caused by a different Mid East War: "If you're cold this winter burn a Jew". I really right now don't care who the US president is when it comes to dealing with the Iran threat, if he's a progressive Democrat, if he's Trump, this should not be a partisan issue. The Iranian regime (distinct from the long suffering Iranian people) has been a major destabilising force in the Middle East and the world for decades now. It is a major sponsor of brutal jihadi groups like Hizballah with its horrific stranglehold on Lebanon, Hamas and the Houthis in Yemen who've been terrorising international shipping in the Bab al Mandab straits and the Red Sea for years now, as well as inflicting terrible suffering on the people of Yemen. In recent months the IRGC and affiliated militias have murdered tens of thousands of Iranians who dared to protest against the tyranny of the regime. All over the world there are thousands, millions, or Iranians who fled this cruel regime and are begging Western countries to help them bring freedom, safety and stability to their homeland. Is this possible? I don't know, but their testimony of the horrors wrought by Khamenai's government show how One of its chief aims since the 1979 revolution has been the destruction of Israel, a country with which it does not even share a border and with whom Iran had warm relations prior to the revolution. As a Shii fundamentalist regime it has targetted its Sunni neighbours, stirring up terrorism, wars and instability across the Middle East, with massive death tolls, all sparked by the extreme ideology of the Iranian regime and the IRGC. Learning from Iraq's use of Scud missiles as terror weapons during the Iran-Iraq war, the Iranian government has dedicated huge resources to the mass production of ballistic missiles and drones to terrorise the civilian populations of nearby Sunni countries and Israel in the present, but also to work on developing longer range missiles to threaten Europe and even the US in future. Iran has used its missile and drone expertise to help Russia in its war against Ukraine, building drone factories in Russia and helping to kill and maim vast numbers of Ukrainian civilians and decimate Ukrainian towns and cities. And then there is the Iranian regimes nuclear weapons programme. This isn't WMDs in Iraq all over again, this is a real and present danger, not just to Israel, which I understand many in the west would be happy to see nuked along with her 10 million citizens, what the Iranian leadership likes to call a "one bomb country", because Israel is so small, just a couple of nuclear warheads could wipe out its entire population, but because a nuclear Iran could more easily hold the world to ransom - imagine a crisis over oil tankers getting through the Straits of Hormuz if Iran already had viable nuclear warheads to fix to its long range missiles aimed throughout the Middle East, at Europe, at southern Asia. The Iranian government's single minded focus on all of these projects have made it a real time threat not just to its neighbours, not just to Israel, but to the world at large, yes, to you in the West, in North America, in Europe, in Australia, NZ, Japan, Korea - wealthy industrial nations who worry about the price of oil and the impact on their economies. Yes, you can all keep appeasing Iran, let them wreak havoc across the Mid East as long as you get your oil, but the wars and instability will catch up to you and your economies because like it or not, you all have important economic interests in the Middle East, whether it's Gulf oil and gas or Israeli innovation and R&D. From medical technology to agricultural innovation to computer chips to cyber security, Israel is an important part of the global economy contributing to the world in a myriad ways that improve standards of living, promote growth and create jobs, including in the US and Europe. Western countries have an interest in Israel not being wiped off the map by Iran. It is detrimental to the global economy when Iran threatens international oil and gas supplies but it is also detrimental to the global economy when one of the world's top technological innovators, major R&D centres and huge start up generators is under fire from ballistic missiles. Likewise when a major banking centre like Manama, Bahrain is being targetted or a business hub like Abu Dhabi.

More traditional spring skies - flocks of migrating storks, pelicans, cranes, alpine swifts and swallows, myriad raptors and song birds travelling over Israel on their long journeys between Africa and Eurasia. A sure sign Pesah is almost here. Such a joy to look up to the sky and see the birds doing their thing as they do every spring come war or covid and whatever other crazy thing is turning our human lives upside down.

Love and fava beans

 

So what did I do today? Joined several groups of volunteers helping out on an Iranian-Israeli (Jewish) family farm in the heart of Israel sorting and shelling fresh ful (fava) beans with a friendly Iranian-Israeli woman who came to Israel from Yezd when she was a teenager more than 50 years ago.

As we worked conversation flowed, Pesah customs and recipes, like Persian green rice with fava beans, "traditional women's talk" that made us feel grounded and connected with our female ancestors from Jewish history, sitting in a circle, assorted Jewish women of different ages and backgrounds, preparing vegetables from the farm for the upcoming holiday.

The farmer's mother stopped by to say hello, chatting for a while in Farsi with my work companion. She also brought with her a still steaming dish of freshly cooked fresh green fava beans for us to taste, a seasonal delicacy, a sign of spring, for the fresh ful season is short. In some communities dishes like this are traditional for Pesah, in others we refrain from eating beans on Pesah, but either way, fresh green ful in the market stalls is a sign of spring in Israel.

And from time to time we got alerts of incoming Iranian missiles and work stopped while we all made our way to the big central shelter in the centre of the moshav village, Jews of all kinds, including those with Iranian roots, non-Jewish migrant workers, Arabs - we all get the Home Front Command alerts on our phones, everyone takes cover together, knowing that Iranian missiles target us all.

On the bus home I sat up front near our Arab driver. He worried about incoming missiles while we were on the road. Worried that I get off at a major junction that's out in the open without close shelter (I knew a friend was giving me a lift from the bus stop so I wouldn't be standing around waiting, not to worry).

The people sitting up front talked about cancelled Pesach plans and vacations, cancelled Eid ul Fitr (the Muslim holiday concluding Ramadan which just finished) plans and trips, life put on hold by the war, spur of the moment ad libbed plans to keep living within the strange new rubric of this war. Strangers, friends and acquaintances, but all with a deep genuine empathy for each other's experiences because we are all in this war together, we all get it, understand each other despite our different communities.

"Safe journey, quiet journey", "Good tidings", "peace" we call out to each other as people get off at their stops. They aren't just words, but blessings and wishes from the heart.

When a missile siren stopped work yesterday at the farm where we were volunteering everyone, regular farmworkers and volunteers, piled into the shelter and the regional Leket farm volunteer coordinator took out his guitar and started a musical singalong Tehillim (Psalms). People joined in, religious, secular, Jew and non-Jew, whether they knew the words or just hummed along. That spirit was a distillation of how we live with the constant existential threat hovering over our everyday lives. No matter how good (and they are incredibly good) our anti-missile defenses, we still know that our enemies have some pretty huge and destructive arsenals aimed at our population centres, and worse that Iran's leadership and IRGC, Hizballah and others are consumed by the hatred required to use these weapons against us. So it's not that we aren't aware that there is a risk of one of these terror weapons hitting, it's that we have faith in the dedication of those protecting us. We will not be cowed, this is our home, our heritage, we are determined to live in the best way that we can. Our ancient ancestor, King David, had a life filled with trouble, with enemies out to get him, but he found time and inspiration to write the sublime poetry of Psalms, to find strength in song, to appreciate the good around him even in the darkest of situations.

 I don't know whether to laugh or cry when people overseas decide to lecture me on 1) "just stop this mutual baseless hatred with Iran" and 2) "war is bad". 

Because someone in the West who has never experienced war or living with missiles being lobbed at them clearly needs to explain to the person who's lived through years of it what war is like. We here wouldn't have a clue otherwise. We'd think it was hunky dory fun and games and glory. Not like we live in a country where running for shelter from ballistic missiles is a fact of life or where there is a national draft and people spend the cream of their young years serving their country. 

Forgive the sarcasm, but it's really getting a bit much to be lectured on how to best to protect our lives by people on the other side of the world who's main concern is the price of petrol and whether war looks bad on tv, rather than whether an Iranian missile is going to hit their home or whether Iran will get to have the nukes they keep promising to use to wipe our country off the map. 

War is horrific, but sometimes not fighting a war has even more horrific consequences. 

Which brings me to #1. There is no "mutual hatred" of Iran from Israel or even from most Iranians I've ever met. There is a fanatical revolutionary regime in Iran though which for 40 years now has been teaching its schoolchildren every day to chant "Death to Israel", and who's leaders burn with a passionate ideological hatred for Israel, believing the existence of a non-Islamic, let alone non-Shia state in the Middle East to be an affront to their faith and an impediment to the coming of the Twelfth Imam, meaning Israel must be destroyed to hasten the coming of the Mahdi and their version of "end times". 

By contrast prior to Khomeini's revolution in 1979 Israel enjoyed diplomatic relations with Iran, the two countries had close ties, include direct flights, tourism and commerce. 

Jews have had ties with Iran going back to the ancient Persia of biblical times, whether it's the Persian court drama of the Purim story or the Cyrus proclamation that allowed the Jews exiled by the Babylonian empire to return home to Zion and rebuild Jerusalem and the Jewish Temple with the Persian king's blessing. 

There is a mutual respect and affection between Iranians and Jews, two ancient Middle Eastern people still clinging to ancient language and culture that predate the Arab Islamic colonisation of our region, our countries dotted with ruins testifying to millennia old civilisations, spoken Farsi and Hebrew stubbornly preserving languages spoken by our ancestors. I have seen so many messages about this from Iranian people, both living as emigres in the global Iranian diaspora and from within Iran. 

There are huge numbers of Farsi speaking Jews hailing from Iran, Afghanistan and central Asia, including a significant and influential community in Jerusalem dating back around 200 years, among the builders of the first neighbourhoods outside the walls of the Old City. 

There are many Israeli Jews who have Persian Jewish ancestry, including senior politicians, rabbis and military leaders, as well as beloved popstars like Rita and Liraz Cherkhi. Iran is not some vast unknown to many Israelis, but a living culture that is part of their lives too. 

So no, this is not a war about peoples hating each other, ignorance of other cultures or a need for everyone to just learn to love each other. There is a serious ideological motivation for the Khomeinist Iranian leadership to oppose Israel, just as there is a serious historical cultural connection and mutual appreciation between many Israelis and the Iranian people. 

The deepest hope of the peoples of Israel and Iran is that this murderous Khomeinist regime will fall or at least be weakened enough so that our countries can again openly and officially be friendly with each other, to the mutual benefit of all.